Bigger VS Smaller Matches

I'd start by asking him if he is a fan of wrestling. If he is just go from there by finding out what type of wrestling he likes.

Sometimes the simplest of a roaches is best…just tell him you admire his strength and that you’ve aways liked wresting and if he’d be interested in match with you that you’d welcome the opportunity…if he says no, oh well you’ve tried…the honest approach seems the best…if he says no make sure you tell him no harm no foul and you like his friendship nonetheless…you never know, he may think about it and come around.

Hello everyone :-) Since wrestling seems to be often refered as an unusual or even weird interest, how do you ask someone to try a wrestling match with you? All that because I know a guy, a bit taller and heavier than me, he is 180cm / 5'91ft and about 80kg / 176lbs, I am 175cm / 5'74ft and 70kg /154lbs. He has thick thighs and good arms too, and is much stronger than me. I can tell that since he managed to lift my 200kg / 440lbs blacksmith's anvil by some centimeters / inches from the ground, and I can tell she's a really heavy beast :-) I just can't move it by hand, I use a workshop crane instead... I think he would be a good opponent in a wrestling match, especially for headscissors which I think would be very tight, and likely unescapable, so he would be a good heel I think :-) I don't how I should ask him for that, do you have some ideas for that?

Growing up, all the guys I wrestled with were usually stronger and better fighters than me. I've always been attracted to guys that are masculine and strong. There are lots of exceptions, but this has been the case before I got stronger.

I wrestled with a friend the other day who who isn't into guys, but likes to wrestle. He doesn't look stronger than me, but he is a guy who has trained with professional MMA fighters and who I will loose to a real street fight.

I asked him first, if I get you in a full nelson, are you going to kick my ass? Literally....he knows wrestling turns me on. His reply, "No, I'm just going to wrap you up in a choke hold and tickle you."

When we got out the car, I went for the Full Nelson...he did everything he said he would.

I got him in several full nelsons, but I like to hold it longer because it is what gets me off...I asked him if he could let me hold it a little longer before fighting back...again...he is a trained fighter and a full nelson is easy for a professional fighter to get out of...he let me hold it longer and it was hot. He has a fat ass and he is 6'2" and I'm 6 ft...again.

Strong guys like to actually play like they can't fight back or when...it is part of the role play. Most of the strongest looking guys are the ones that want to be dominated...and they will surrender to you...that's been my experience. It is important to just have fun.

I'm new to this site, but most of the guys I like I usually end up wrestling with...some end up in my bed for massages.

I usually like straight guys, cause they like to wrestle and aren't actually trying to just fuck.

Hope this is helpful! =0)

To tell you, I am straight, and the guy in question is probably too. I think wrestling is a fun sport, and I am sick of the fact most consider it as a sexual thing... Sport is sport, nothing else! But it is sure this guy is much stronger than me, he already looks strong but is even more than I thought, I was amazed when he lifted my anvil, so impressive, she's a 200kg/440lbs beast... His strength is just incredible, I would like to ask him about wrestling next time we meet, but I still don't know how to, that is the problem...

Wrestling is sexual for me, and the guys I wrestle with it isn't for them at all. So there are no assumptions. Just sharing my experiences.

Maybe have a laugh at something and tell him you could beat him in a wrestling match. Then he'd have to prove that you couldn't. Tell him there's no way he could break free of one of your holds or tell him there's no way he could pin you down. Or maybe just grab him in a headlock. 😄

Your response doesn't help much, since the guy in question is much stronger than me, and so, I would be his jobber in a wrestling match...

My mistake. I thought you wanted to wrestle him.

Yes, that's what I want, but him as the heel, and me as the jobber, that's all...

Good luck with that.